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Cal, 56 y.o., United States, Richland
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First name: Cal
Age: 56
Location: United States, Richland
Zodiac Sign: Leo
Weight: 79kg
Height: 175cm
Eye colour: Hazel
Hair colour: Light Brown
Body type: Muscular
Smoking Frequency: Never
Drinking Frequency: Never
With information:
Language:
English 5 (Fluent)
Portuguese 2 (Elementary)
Spanish 1(Basic)
Marital status: Divorced
Want children: Yes
Education: Graduate degree
Job title: Scientist/Researcher
Preferences
Age: 23 - 45
Weight: 40.86 - 70.37 kg
Height: 145 - 180 cm
Eye colour: Any
Hair colour: Any
Is it okay if they have children?: Yes
Body type: Slender, Average, Muscular, A few extra pounds, Disabled
Smokes: Never
Drinks: Occasionally(Socially)
Ethnic Preference: African, White/Caucasian, Hispanic/Latino, South American

Responses to some questions

How would you describe yourself?
Love to laugh, to learn, and to experience new things - I'm passionate in all that I do. I am athletic, enjoy a wide range of sports and also simply being outside. I try to be generous with my time and energy and am kind, affectionate and honest. I value taking risk whle also appreciate stability.
How would you describe your ideal partner?
She is quick to laugh and shares her humor with all around her. She loves the home but appreciates travel and adventure. She is nurturing, both with me and others (children, hopefully), gives love and knows how to receive it too. She is passionate, takes care of herself and is active. My ideal partner should care enough about herself to look good but need not be muscular or even go to the gym every day - much more important is that she be intelligent, healthy, and caring.
If you knew the world was going to end in 30 days, what would you do?
Build/buy/steal a very large and fast space craft to get up and out! I would live life to the fullest, treasuring each moment, I guess. Isn't that how we're supposed to live all of our lives?
If you had 10 million dollars to spare, what would you do with it?
Spare $10M?!?! Give some to friends and family (buy my mother a new house), save some, spend some, then give most to charity.
How often, and from whom do you ask advice?
When I feel that it would help - I'm not too proud to learn from others nor am I under the mistaken impression that I have all the answers to everything. However, when I do, I only ask people who have expertise and carefully evaluate the information to make my own judgements.
What quality do you value most in the people of your gender?
Honesty, integrity, cheerfulness. Sometimes challenge and competition.
What quality do you value most in the opposite sex?
Same as similar question above for same sex people. Except for the obvious!
What is a recent prominent event in your life, and how has it affected you?
My divorce. I was married for 4.5 weeks. What a joke. An expensive mistake. Very happy to now be divorced though.
What is the best advice that you give to your children?
Never stop learning and growing.
What has produced the biggest impression (shock) on you?
Recently? That my country was stupid enough to elect GW Bush to president (twice!!). Also one of the largest recent disappointments...
The last books that you read?
The Crucible of Time by John Brunner, other science fiction stuff
What are your goals now?
Find love and a partner for life. Also, I am shifting my career to work in energy and alternative power from science and research.
Whom do you admire?
My father, Ghandi, Martin Luther King, Elie Weisel and all the surviors, the Dali Lama!
Do you have a lot of friends?
Many, many. I am very fortunate.
What qualities do you dislike most in those of your gender?
Seems like testosterone makes some guys very stupid. The machismo that leads some men to violence, to showing off, to abusive behavior, is an embarassment to the rest of us.
What qualities do you dislike most in the people of the opposite sex?
Vanity, preocupation with appearance and materialism, unrealistic expectations (guess many of these are complaints that can apply to men too...)
What would you like to change in yourself?
I have always felt too responsible for too many things, like I have always been the one who must fix problems. Life for me would be easier if I could relax, let some things slide, and to simply enjoy and be happy.
What are your weaknesses?
Who, me? Assuming that I'm not perfect, well, I can be cynical at times, judgemental at others, but rarely are these apparent from the outside.
What are your strengths ?
I am forgiving, very caring, extremely generous. I make an effort to see the bright side of life. I don't drink or do drugs.
How do friends view you?
Someone who is fun who makes people laugh. I guess they also see me as a reliable friend who makes time to help others. But really, this question should be asked of them.
What are your favourite games?
Soccer, baseball, skiing, tennis, golf - I will play almost all sport. Don't play video games or board games much.
Who are your favourite writers and poets?
Dante, Arturo Perez Reverte, Nabokov, Richard K. Morgan, Dawkins, William Gibson, Neal Stevenson. Poets? Pablo Neruda
What kinds of music do you like?
Love most kinds of music. Samba; classical; jazz - Diz; raggae; Motown; MPB; punk - Riverdales, Skreeching Weasel, The Donnas; bluegrass; R&B - always Otis Reading and Marvin Gaye songs on my iPod playlists; old country - Cash, HWilliams; various electronica/techno for the gym; Hendrix, Allman Bros, Screaming Jay Hawkins, Ella, Smiths, Ramones...
What is your favourite food?
Sushi, Itallian, Brazilian (churrasco), seafood
What are your favourite films?
Il Postino, The Red Violin, My life as a dog, Memento, Jean de Fleurette, Bad Santa, Black Orpheus, Cidade de Deus...
What is your favourite fairy-tale?
The Brothers Grimm.
What is your favourite activity or hobby?
Reading.
What is your dream job?
Entrepreneur, investor, philanthropist
Tell us about your dream partner.
The details don't matter too much - she will be beautiful in her own way. Hopefully we will recognize each other when we have a chance to meet...
Where do you want to live?
On Earth. There is beauty everywhere but I do like the oceans and rivers so the home should be close to water.
 
Do I enjoy grocery shopping?
I like it very much
Do I enjoy other types of Shopping?
I don't mind it
How often do I like to go out?
Twice a week
Do I enjoy dining out?
I love it
When it comes to TV
Turn it off
When it comes to money
I've been known to blow some cash but I know my limits
Describe myself at a party as a
Social butterfly
Keep my space
It's not perfect but close
Ideally I would like to live in a
beach house
Do I enjoy gardening?
Don't mind helping
Do I enjoy cooking?
I like cooking
Preference for pets
Don't have but like Cats, Dogs
What type of television programs do I enjoy watching most?
Sport, Films, Documentary, Nature/wildlife
I enjoy spending free time
Doing something athletic, Curling up with a good book, With family, Taking a class, Volunteering, Pursuing a hobby
Activities that I enjoy
Biking, Swimming, Weight lifting, Wind surfing/surfing, Boating/sailing, Hiking, Dancing, Skiing/snowboarding, Water skiing
Sports that I enjoy watching and/or playing
Football, Soccer, Tennis, Golf
Forms of entertainment that I enjoy
Concerts, Dinner parties, Fine dining, Movies, Classical music, Museum/arts, Reading
Other hobbies or interests
Creative writing, family/kids, motorcycles, news/politics/events, social cause/activism, travelling, volunteer